Sunday, August 9, 2009
Mickey D's
Thanks AP
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Pothole Pep Talk
The Q & A luncheon had been scheduled the previous week but been cancelled due to some changes in our schedules. As I walked to the canteen to get my lunch, I again was going through the self-talk..."you'll get everything completed," "be patient," "relax and just enjoy things." I got my lunch and walked down to our new student center. I arrived to a beautifully decorated table just for the newbies and administrators. As I sat down, Craig shared that the jars on the table were filled with mango chutney that Lisa, our co-HR director and Craig's wife, had made (it's delicious by the way). I started feeling guilty right away but was reminded this is probably what I need amongst all the chaos.
We began by just catching up on how the day was going, newbie life, etc and once all arrived, Craig asked us for our questions. Now, I had already generated a question for our original lunch but waited to see what everyone else was going to ask. Lots of great questions related to our EAB, daily life, apartments all which were answered by our administrators.
Then Craig looked down toward my end of the table. He asked a couple people near me for questions and then we made eye contact. My question was much more uh, well, about the bigger picture and it felt out of place but I decided to "suck it up" as my dad likes to say and ask it anyway.
"I need to preface this question with saying that I'm from the Midwest, so please bear with me. So, most of us here are new to international teaching and all of us are new to EAB and I'm wondering what are the potholes that you can help us to avoid? What potholes have you seen newbies fall into?"
Each of the administrators spoke, shared stories and gave us a great list of the potholes we need to be weary of at EAB and in Brazil. Here's their pothole list:
- Think before you speak. - With languages and cultures being different, be aware of what you say. Avoid sarcasm. What you say and what you wanted your message to convey may not be interpreted in that way.
- Listen - Spend some time to really listen to your new colleagues, families and students. You'll learn much more about your new home from them and have a deeper understanding by doing so.
- Reserve Judgement - Instead of complaining about how a line was incredibly long, ask someone to explain the system to you. You can ask, "Could you please tell me a little more about how the federal police system works?"
- Communicate - Craig's says you can never have too much communication with a family. Be honest, open and do it early and often.
I've been using their advice everyday since then...at school and out socially with my new friends and colleagues. There have honstly been several situations where I've thought back to this conversation and it's saved me. Their advice can apply to any person, at any time in any location. But when everything is new, sometimes our common sense is one of the things that gets lost.
So, this luncheon that I went into thinking would be just a time together when I could be working, was one of the most beneficial parts of our new teacher orientation. And not only for the pothole advice but also because I needed to slow down on Wednesday and gain some perspective. Sometimes, those bigger questions are what we need and we don't always realize it at the time.
A final note about potholes... On Wednesday afternoon at 3:45, all of the staff met in our auditorium to have a final pep talk before school began. We learned all about H1N1 (a big deal here since our kids travel so much) and about our first all-staff TGIF -a boat cruise on the lake (I'll make a post of that one too once I get pics from friends here ). Craig opened this by sharing a few stories from the past few days. One of the stories he shared was from our lunch together. He said, "Today I had lunch with all of the new teachers. It was a Q & A session where they could ask whatever they wanted. I want to share what one teacher asked." Guess whose question he shared? Mine. He shared the pothole advice with everyone. He reminded us that we all, no matter our position, should be taking these into account.
I felt pretty humbled that he chose to share my question with the entire staff but I now that I think about it, since we've arrived at EAB, Craig's been giving this same advice all along. Maybe I just hadn't connected to something I could hang onto and potholes were my hook. Regardless, I'm glad I know how to avoid them here.
And in case you were wondering the word potholes doesn't quite translate to Portuguese because someone asked but they do have potholes here so the message was still understood.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
And the white boards were hung by the maintenance crew with care...
Originally the server was going to remain in my room until Winter Break then it would be moved to a nearby storage room. Well, the timeline was pushed forward and Monday (2 days ago) several men spent the entire day moving the server. I was so thrilled to have the server moved but it was a huge undertaking. After the server was moved, the wall where it was located needed to be plastered and painted. Due to all the painting and plastering and drilling there was dust everywhere.
When you're in a new place, your home and for me my classroom are 2 things I can control...well, a bit. Now my room was in total disaray and I felt it looked like I took about 2 giant leaps backwards. Ahhhhhhh! Monday night, after a nap, chats with friends, the Goo and my parents, I knew everything would be fine.
And today by 6:00 it was. My room has been swarmed by all of EAB's amazing maintenance workers in the past 72 hours. The electrician, the painter, "general" maintenance who hung my dry erase and bulletin boards. And a lot of their help was managed by my wonderful classroom assistant Miguel. So with all of their help and my blood, sweat and just a few tears...here's my room...
* Teacher Side Note: Large class size at EAB is 22. Due to the large size of the 3rd grade classes I also have my own classroom assistant, Miguel. He's wonderful and I'm thrilled to have the extra help. Not trying to rub it in, just the facts.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
My New Place
I also have a second door to which is for service people. So different than at home. Right now that's what everyone's using since my main door lock is broken. What's that saying about back door guests are best? Everyone's a back door guest at my place.
They're round.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
New Teacher Orientation - Brazilian Style
Soooo much progress since I started!
Didn't stay whole time, just to hear Craig (our headmaster) introduce himself and learn about how he introduces families to American School of Brasilia (EAB). So glad I went. He's a powerful speaker and his presentation truly echoed what we heard during ours. Another reason why I know this is a good fit for me.
12:00 - 1:00 - Lunch
1:00 - 2:15 - Portugese Lesson
Meu nome e Megan. Eu sou dos Estados Unidos. And I also learned my abcs. I know more than that I just chose a couple I know my gringos back home could understand.
2:15 - 5:00 - Bus Tour
The cathedral. It's beautiful and now you probably will recognize where I got my blog banner (which by the way is my picture from when I visited Andrea 5 years ago).
Me in front of Congress (House meets on the right, Senate on the left). Amazing how close you can get to all of the gov't sites here. Just a little different than the states...
Some of the newbies on the TV Tower. Way, way in the background if you have amazing eyesight you might make out the same building I was standing in front of earlier. Great views of the entire city.
6:30 - 8:00 - Happy Hour/s at Libanos Some of the newbies have been to this very popular Lebanese restaurant a few times now.
Erin, Same, Laura and Stephanie...just 4 of our group of 11. Our newbie group is an eccletic mix of people who are all just wonderful. We've spent a lot of time together this past week and it's been a blast.
Libby wearing a cute Libanos hat. She wears funky hats and this one suits her well.
8:00 - 9:00 - New Teacher Apartment Tour/walk home We've all been scoping out each other's places. Fun to see how different they are.
9:00 - Home
9:15 - Bed
Friday, July 31, 2009
I'm Alive! I Arrived!
Tomorrow morning I'm off to the local produce market and to buy some plants. We're going in a group so we can learn the ins and outs and get a bit of help with our Portugese. It is coming along... Early day though...meeting @ 7:30 a.m. @ school. That's 5:30 a.m. on a Saturday during the summertime for those of you Illinoisians. Then onto school to work more on my classroom and off to a party tomorrow night. Fun and busy!
Final word. Sorry for the delay in my postings. Just got the internet today at home and with our schedule the past week will update over the weekend with pics and all. So happy to have it after being envious of 9 of the 11 other newbies who'd been facebooking, gmailing, skyping with their friends and family. It's time for me now. Yea! Hope you all are wonderful. Miss you much!