Monday, December 14, 2009
Taxi!
With my new footwear I knew I'd need to take a taxi. I also knew that I wanted the taxi to wait for me while I did my quick 30 minute buzz through the fair. So prior to leaving the apartment I'd practiced phrases like, "Could you please wait for me for 30 minutes at the tower and then bring me back to my apartment?" and also "I've sprained my ankle and am buying X-mas presents for my family," (so playing on the guilt factor there) but was ready to go. I limped on over to the taxi stand which is about a 2 minute walk from my apartment.
One thing you should know is that my boot is now making an extremely loud clicking sound as I walk. Andrea asked if it was like high heels. More like if a giant had high heels or a breaking plastic sound. My friend Vanessa today started laughing about it as we walked. That's when you know how ridiculous you really sound. This new sound just adds to people watching me limp around. A gringa. A boot and now a large sound that accompanies the girl. Seriously, I hope I start getting paid for the crazy things people watch me do around here.
Anyway, got to the taxi stand where there was a taxi waiting. I walked up to the open passenger window and exchanged greetings with the taxi driver. The older gentleman smiled, a kind smile. Then I told him where I wanted to go. He said okay and I got into the front seat which is not my usual seat but that's easier with my boot. After getting in I asked if he'd be able to wait for me. Again same response. Okay. Then I told him about my ankle. He said he was sorry to hear about that and we began our 15 or so minute drive to the tower. The entire drive we chatted about the possible rain, my trip home, about his friends who live in my neighborhood, what building I lived in and that he had one friend who lived in it and exchanged other pleasantries in Portuguese. I was pretty proud of how I was doing considering I've not been to class in a couple of weeks.
I did notice as we were driving he continued to check his watch, a lot. I knew either he was late or needed to be somewhere. We sped up the little hill to the tower parking lot where he dropped me off by all of the dried flowers. He told me that he had to go and pick up a lady and take her to church and then he'd be back for me. He told me to wait by the flowers and that he'd look for me there. He also said he'd be a little late. No problem. I could wait a few extra minutes. Before leaving the taxi, he pointed to the meter. R$14. Okay I said, I'd pay him when he picked me up. Again I was thrilled by how much Portuguese I was able to understand.
He pulled away, I clicked up the small hill to buy my wares. Found things pretty easily. Did some bargaining and was glad I'd waited to buy things in Brasilia over Rio. Much better prices on the stuff I needed.
While opening my purse to put my purchases inside, I checked my phone to check the time. 32 minutes had passed. I quickly and not so quietly limped on back to the taxi pick-up point. No go. So I waited.
10 minutes.
20 minutes...
30 minutes...
40 minutes. At this point, I'd become tired, hot and annoyed so I phoned my Brazilian and Portuguese helpline also known as Andrea. She told me to phone another taxi, get the number at the taxi stand (since taxi stands usually belong to one particular company) and I could take care of paying the first driver later. Sometime soon I think she's going to start charging me since I do this at least one time a week.
Instead of calling I schlepped my butt and goods down to the other side of the Hippie Fair to the taxi stand where I found 3 taxis waiting. None were my friend but I took one home. The whole time I felt guilty, thinking I'd left my original driver in a lurch but at the same time, I needed to get back for myself and to meet a friend for lunch. I just didn't want the taxi driver to think I was some American jerk who skipped out on paying. I feel like at times I need to make sure people know that no matter where people are from, people are kind and true.
Upon arriving back at my apartment building, I explained the situation to my doorman. He completely understood my broken Portuguese. Again, feeling so proud of my Portuguese abilities. I handed him the R$14 in case the taxi driver came to my apartment. Since he knew which building was mine I wanted to make sure I had the support. I left for lunch, returned and no driver. Thinking I'd have Miguel, my amazing teaching assistant call today and remedy the situation, I went upstairs, put on my pjs and settled in. About 15 minutes later, my apartment phone rang. The driver was downstairs.
Quickly I threw on some layers and hobbled on toward the elevator. I was feeling a little nervous as I went down. Would he be upset? Would he think I'd tried to sherk my fee? When I got downstairs, there he was smiling. He told me that the lady who'd he taken and does take weekly to church had not wanted to leave and that the church was far away from where I was so he'd been quite late. No problem. I paid him the R$14 I owed and then he told me to wait a moment. He walked over to his taxi which was parked in front of the building, opened the door and reached toward his glovebox. After finding a piece of paper, he handed it to me. The paper he gave me had his name and phone number. Severino. He told me next time to call him and he can pick me up right there.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Child Outta This World - Also Know as EAB's Holiday Concert
After the show ended, we wished everyone a Merry Christmas and I again limped across stage (at least wearing one cute shoe) we went back to our room for one final shot and also so families could pick up their children. It was such a wonderful show because the kids had such joy throughout it all...rehearsals, classes and their final performance.
Brazilian Thanksgiving
Earlier in the day, I was reminded about the larger meaning of Thanksgiving. I had received a bit of mail from Ansley. I miss playing with her a lot. In fact we have a soccer date when I return. I just had better get my ankle healed quickly or if not will have to have a snowdate since I think the weather may not cooperative with our plans. The point though of including this and taking my picture that night was it reminded me of why Thanksgiving's important. It's about taking some time to be thankful for what you have. I could write a post and list all of the people that help me to be me, support me, love me but instead, I think the photo says it. It's the little things, it's the handprint turkeys, the emails, the calls from the people we love and care about that makes me thankful. I'm such a lucky girl and a few weeks past Thanksgiving, I'm still thankful for it. And I'm even more thankful that in 6 days, less than one week, I'll get to tell everyone in person just how thankful I am for them.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Pros and Cons
- pain,
- wearing a boot that makes your foot hot while living in a warm place,
- it takes forever to get anywhere,
- having to rely on people for a lotta things when you're pretty independent (rides, extra steps, grocery shopping, etc),
- getting tired,
- lack of exercise and the list could go on.
But having a sprained ankle has many pros too which until I stop and think about it, are easily forgotten. The pros include:
- prioritizing work (I do what I have to do not just other "stuff"),
- excuses to lay around on the couch,
- Chinese herbs taken with wine,
- my students jump at the chance to grab something across the room as they see me start to limp over (that one probably sounds like child labor - I don't ask, they offer, I swear!),
- more time with friends.
Since my sprain, I've had lots of time to myself lounging but I've also had loads of time lounging with friends too. I've played more games, eaten more meals and just sat around talking about odds and ends with friends then I had in a while. In fact, after I send off this post, I'm headed over to Andrea's for some pasta and Guitar Hero. This is the perfect TLC after a long day of concert rehearsals which made for tired feet and a tired brain from report card writing.
I feel really lucky to have such great people to do this lounging with and just wanna say thanks to them for putting in their extra time (my mom's so happy to know I'm getting the TLC I need) and in the same breath putting up with me. Words can't say this enough.
Thanks Andrea. Thanks Erica. Thanks Kathy. Thanks Super Stars. Thanks Erins. Thanks Sam. Thanks everyone. You're the best and if you ever sprain your ankle, I may not have a car to schlep you around but I'm happy to schlep to the store, bring you chocolate or watch bad tv with you anytime.
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Girls' Weekend at the Faz
HUGE! It even fit all of us.One of my favorite parts of the property were the adorable garbage cans. I wonder if there were fun garbage cans everywhere if more people would throw things away. Here are just a few of them.
A mango tree with a tree swing. Yes, those are mangoes!
Cheers!
Cozing up near the fireplace in the library.
Playing games.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Chinese Medicine Quandaries
Here are Dr. Gu's steps for treating a sprained ankle.
1. Treat with accupuncture needle.
Quite painful initially for patient as injured area was poked with needle but after about 10 minutes began to feel better.
2. Massage sprained ankle
Prefaced this step of treatment by saying, "I'm not going to break it." Definitely knew this would hurt.
3. Burn some Chinese herbs and pack on entire sprained area.
No feeling other than heat from intial placement.
4. Perscribe Chinese medicine to help with the circuluation since my ankle's swollen.
Here's where my Western and American upbringing and Portuguese language learning collide.
Dr. Gu's assistant gave me the directions for taking this medication while Andrea's treatment was being completed so I was on my own. I figured if I didn't understand something I could ask them to repeat it to her but I want to work on my Portuguese and this was a prime opportunity to do it.
I also understood, "Take this side (right) of the package, along with one of the little round red ones from the middle at dinner."
So far, so good. Feeling pretty good about my Portuguese understanding at this point.
This is where my cognitive dissonance began though. Then I heard her say, "When you take these at lunch and also at dinner, take them with a glass of wine."
I thought, "Did she just say take it with a glass of wine? No way."
My face must have revealed my thinking as she repeated the same wine drinking directions. She also told me that the directions for the medication were in English. At this point, Andrea had come out of her appointment and asked if I understood the directions. I was completely embarassed thinking my Portuguese sucks. I thought she said take this with wine. Crazy! Being embarassed, I told Andrea I did understand and I thought, "Just check them when you get home."
So I did. I read through the directions and here's what they say:
'For patients suffering from stagnated blood, swelling and pain and no bleeding wounded take the capsules with wine.' My Portuguese was right on! I had translated it correctly. I thought you've got to be joking as my American and Western medicine schema are the complete opposite of that thinking. Usually doctors and labels warn us from doing that.
I took the first dose about an hour ago. I'll keep you updated on how Dr. Gu's treatment's help my ankle. If it's anything like how they help my back though, I know it's gonna be good.
Before I end this post though, there are a few other directions on the information sheet that I think you will enjoy.
- Directions for others who would benefit from this medication: 'As to wounds by knife, bullet or traumatic injury, no mater (spelling on paper) how severe they have been, the capsules are administered with warm boiled water.'
- Precautions: 'Avoid broad beans, fish and sour, cold food within one day of administration.' Guess no kimchi for me!
Friday, December 4, 2009
Got the Boot
As I walked down the stairs, I did have the conscious thought, "Be careful Megan. Go slowly. This is the type of place where you fall down." 3 steps later, I bit it. Hard. I heard a loud crack and was asked by all those around me if I was okay. I hobbled down the stairs and the remainder of the tour knowing full-well that something was wrong, very wrong.
* In general favelas are neighborhoods in Rio where where people from the Northeastern part of Brazil moved to help build the beach-front properties in Rio. Favelas have reputations for being dangerous and also controlled by druglords. I could give more information but figure you (Maz) can click if you want to learn more here.
Andrea took me to the ER on Tuesday, my first trip to a Brazilian hospital, where I saw an orthopedic ER doctor. He took a quick look and then began to press on the outside of it and with much wincing and saying "ouch" (not sure how to say that yet in Portuguese), he determined that I had "torce meu torcenio" which means sprained my ankle.
This also means I have to spend the next 8 days wearing the lovely apparatus but knowing well that I usually take longer to heal than anticipated and I sprain this ankle on an annual and in some years bi-annual basis. So when I fly home in a couple of weeks and truly need to switch out of my Haivanas and into boots, I may already be wearing one. Unfortunately, it may not be a cute pair of Uggs but instead an orthopedic one.
What do you think? Which story do you believe? I guess though, no matter which version you chose, there's something that's true. I've learned one thing from this, no matter the continent, my klutziness follows me wherever I go.